If the appropriate advice is for them to perform yibbum, they advise him2Our text is based on authoritative manuscripts and early printings of the Mishneh Torah. This version appears appropriate, for the decision to perform yibbum or chalitzah is that of the remaining brother alone. to perform yibbum.3This follows the Rambam's perspective (Chapter 1, Halachah 2) that, in general, it is preferable to perform yibbum rather than chalitzah. Even so, the judges should take counsel and see whether the couple appear appropriate for each other. If the appropriate advice is for them to perform chalitzah - e.g., she is young and he is older, or she is older and he is young4See Hilchot Issurei Bi'ah 21:26. - they advise him to perform chalitzah.
If [the judges] did not speak about the matter, nor did they establish a place, and [the yevamah] and [the yavam] chanced upon them and performed chalitzah, the chalitzah is acceptable.
The yevamah should be trained to say lo avah in one breath, [pause,] and say yabmi, so that her words cannot be interpreted to mean avah yabmi.7Lo avah yabmi means "My yavam did not desire" [Deuteronomy 25:7]. Improper emphasis could, however, cause the statement to be interpreted as: "No, my yavam desired."
If one of the three individuals is a convert, [the chalitzah] is unacceptable. Even a man whose father is a convert, and his mother a native-born Jewess,11The Ramah (Even HaEzer 169:2) rules that a judge whose father is a native-born Jew and his mother is a convert may serve in this capacity. should not participate in the chalitzah ceremony. [Instead, it is necessary,] that both his father and his mother be native-born Jews.12Deuteronomy 25:10 states: "And his name will be called in Israel...." This phrase implies that only those of Jewish ancestry can serve in this capacity.
It is a mitzvah for five men [to observe the rite], so that the matter will be publicized.13This serves two purposes. It is of benefit to the woman, for men will become aware that she is eligible to remarry. It also will make known the fact that she is forbidden to a priest (Rashi, Yevamot 101b). The other two may even be common people.14Who do not know how to read. For their presence is only for the sake of making the matter known.
Both [the yavam] and [the yevamah] stand before the court.20The Sifre derives this concept from Deuteronomy 25:8, which states: "And he shall stand and say." After the fact, however, if the chalitzah was performed while the yavam and the yevamah were seated, it is acceptable (Ramah, ibid. 169:12). The phrase [Deuteronomy 25:7], Me'ein yevami.... ("My yavam refuses....") is read in Hebrew for the yevamah to repeat. Afterwards, the phrase [ibid.:8], Lo chafatzti lekachtah ("I do not desire to take her") is read for the yavam to repeat.
He then presses his foot to the ground.21The Tur states in the name of Rabbenu Yitzchak Alfasi that if the yavam does not press his foot to the ground, the chalitzah is not acceptable. The Shulchan Aruch (ibid.:32) quotes this as a minority opinion. She sits [on the ground],22The Shulchan Aruch (ibid.:30) differs and follows the opinion of the Tur, who states that the chalitzah should be performed while the woman is standing and bends to untie and remove the yavam's shoe. extends her hand before the court, loosens the straps of his shoe, removes it,23The Shulchan Aruch (ibid.) states that the yevamah should untie and remove the shoe with her right hand alone. The Ramah states, however, that, after the fact, the chalitzah is acceptable if she uses her left hand. and throws it to the ground.24The Tur and others question the rationale for this act. Significantly, the commentaries cite the Rambam's source as the Zohar, Volume III, page 180a, which states that the removal of the shoe signifies the cutting of the woman's connection with her deceased husband. At the moment she removes the majority of the heel [of the shoe from his foot], she becomes free to marry another man.
Afterwards, the phrase Kachah ye'aseh..., "This is what should be done to a man who does not build his brother's household. And his [family] shall be called within Israel 'the household of the one whose shoe was removed' [Deuteronomy 25:9-10] is read for the yevamah to repeat.
All those seated27The Mishnah (Yevamot 12:6) and the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:42) mention "those standing there." in attendance recite chalutz hana'al, "the one whose shoe was removed," three times.28We find a threefold repetition of a phrase employed by the Sages as a means of publicizing the matter. See Hilchot Temidim UMusafim 7:11.
The Halachot Gedolot interprets the threefold repetition as a reprimand. It is as if God told him: "Wicked man! With your body, you could have performed a mitzvah, and you refused.... The judges will proclaim: 'The one whose shoe was removed' like a mourner. 'The one whose shoe was removed' like one placed under a ban of ostracism. 'The one whose shoe was removed' like a person who rebels against [God's] commandments."
The yevamah must remove his shoe with willful intent, and [the yavam] must have the intent that he performs this rite on her behalf. They must perform these acts with the intent of enabling her to marry other men.29Our translation of lishmah is based on the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:44).
A blind man30I.e., one who is blind in both eyes (Hagahot Maimoniot, Ramah, loc. cit.:48). should not perform chalitzah,31As reflected by Halachah 15, this is just an a priori ruling. After the fact, the chalitzah is acceptable.
The Ra'avad states that this law applies only when there is another brother who can perform chalitzah. If there is not another brother, the blind man should perform this ritual on the woman's behalf. Although the Maggid Mishneh contests the Ra'avad's decision, the Beit Shmuel 169:48 upholds it. for [Deuteronomy 25:9] states: "[She] shall spit before his face," and he cannot see her spittle.
Afterwards, [the yavam] says: "I do not desire to take her." At which point, she removes his shoe and then spits. Afterwards, she recites: "This is what should be done to a man who does not build his brother's household. And his [family] shall be called within Israel 'the household of the one whose shoe was removed.'
[Their deeds are, nevertheless, effective to a certain degree.] They are not comparable to a chalitzah performed by [a yevamah] or [a yavam] who was a deaf-mute, in which case their deeds are of no consequence whatsoever,36As mentioned in the Maggid Mishneh, the Rambam's view is dependent on the Tosefta, while on the surface, the Mishnah (Yevamot 104b) appears to accept the position that a chalitzah performed by a deaf-mute is unacceptable, but not of no consequence. The Maggid Mishneh attempts to justify the Rambam's ruling, but notes that the Ramban and the Rashba follow the latter view. [Significantly, in his Commentary on the Mishnah (Yevamot 12:4), the Rambam also appears to favor the latter view, and his decision in the Mishneh Torah represents a reversal of his thinking.] The Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:44) mentions both views without appearing to favor either one. for a deaf-mute is not of sufficient mental capacity to take responsibility for his [or her] actions.
There is a difference of opinion among the commentaries whether the effectiveness of spitting is a Scriptural law or a Rabbinic institution. The Maggid Mishneh states that it appears that the Rambam is deriving the concept from the exegesis of a verse, but this is not accepted by all authorities.
If both [the yevamah and the yavam] recite [the appropriate phrases], but the yevamah does not remove [the yavam's shoe] or spit, they have not accomplished anything.38Yibbum is permitted, and she is not disqualified from marrying into the priesthood. [This is implied by the verse:] "This is what should be done to a man" - i.e., a deed removing the shoe or spitting has an effect. The recitation of the verses, by contrast, is not an absolute requirement, nor does it have any effect [on its own].39Yevamot 105a distinguishes between spitting and the recitation of the verses as follows: Spitting should be carried out after the removal of the yavam's shoe. Therefore, if it is performed before the removal of the shoe, it is considered a distinct act. The recitation of the verses, by contrast, should be performed before the removal of the shoe. An observer will thus realize that the fundamental aspect of the ceremony is still to be performed.
a) a woman performed chalitzah at night,44See Halachah 5.
b) she performed chalitzah in the presence of two judges or in the presence of three judges, and one of them was a relative or [otherwise] disqualified [from serving in this capacity,45Since chalitzah is considered a judgment, three acceptable judges must preside over the ceremony.
c) the shoe was tied above his knee,46Deuteronomy 25:9 states: "She shall remove his shoe from his foot." If the shoe is tied above the knee, it is not considered to have been removed from his foot.
d) he untied the shoe and she removed it,47The entire act of removing the shoe must be performed by the woman. The Ramah (Even HaEzer 169:33) quotes Rabbenu Asher, who rules that if the man could walk wearing the shoe while it is untied, the chalitzah is acceptable even if the man untied the shoe and the woman removed it. or she untied the shoe and he removed it,
e) she had the intent of performing [these acts to release herself from her obligation to her yavam] but he did not, or he had the intent of performing [these acts to release her from her obligation to her yavam] but she did not,48As stated in Halachah 8, the ceremony must be performed with this intent in mind.
f) or a girl below the age of majority removed the shoe of an adult.49Since the girl is not past the age of majority, her deed is not totally effective. Nevertheless, since she can be be married at this age, her deed has a minimal effect, and she can no longer perform yibbum.
Similarly, if a woman performs chalitzah in the presence of one judge, or even if chalitzah is performed at night by [the yevamah and the yavam] while they are alone, the chalitzah is unacceptable.50The Rambam's intent is that the chalitzah is unacceptable, but it at least has the effect of preventing the woman from performing yibbum in the future, as opposed to a chalitzah that is of no consequence, as explained in Halachah 26. When, however, chalitzah is performed by a deaf-mute, a mentally incapable person, or a minor,51These individuals are all considered mentally incompetent, and their deeds are not considered of consequence with regard to Torah law. As mentioned above, there are opinions that maintain that chalitzah performed by a deaf-mute is unacceptable, but not of no consequence whatsoever. and similarly, when a man performs chalitzah with a woman who is not obligated to perform chalitzah or yibbum,52E.g., a yevamah who is pregnant. the chalitzah is of no consequence.
The Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:35) mentions both opinions, but appears to favor the Rambam's view. The Beit Yosef states that according to the Rambam, such a chalitzah is of no consequence at all. The Beit Shmuel 169:33 states that since there are authorities who maintain that such a chalitzah is acceptable, the later authorities agree that a woman may not perform yibbum after such a chalitzah. If he performs chalitzah with his left leg, the chalitzah is unacceptable.
If [the yavam] is bowlegged, his foot turns to his side, or he always walks on the tips of his toes, she should not perform chalitzah, for the man performing chalitzah must press his heel to the ground, and such a person is incapable of this. If a person with such a disability in his legs performs chalitzah, the chalitzah is unacceptable.54After the fact, if a yavam does not press his heel to the ground in an ordinary instance, the chalitzah is, nevertheless, acceptable. The distinction between an ordinary chalitzah and the case at hand is that ordinarily, it is possible for the yavam to press his heel to the ground, and therefore the fact that he does not actually do so is not significant. In this instance, the yavam is incapable of doing so. Hence, the chalitzah is unacceptable.
Although the Ra'avad and others differ with the Rambam on this issue, the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:34) accepts the Rambam's view.
If she removes a shoe made from cloth, she has not performed chalitzah.55A cloth shoe does not protect the foot at all; therefore, it is not considered a shoe (Yevamot 103a). This ruling is also applied in other contexts - e.g., on Yom Kippur, when we are forbidden to wear shoes, it is permitted to wear a cloth shoe (Hilchot Sh'vitat Asor 3:7).
The Rashba and others maintain that there is no difference between a cloth slipper and a shoe made from the other substances mentioned. This is the view quoted by the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:22). If, however, she removes a shoe that does not have a heel, [a shoe] that was sewn with linen threads, a shoe made from goats' hair, the inner bark of a palm tree, cork or wood, the chalitzah is unacceptable.56These substances offer some protection, and so the chalitzah is of some consequence. Nevertheless, when the Torah uses the word נעל, the intent is always a leather shoe.
[This same ruling applies if] the shoe is so large that [the yavam] could not walk in it, if it is so small that it does not cover the majority of his foot, it is torn to the extent that it does not cover the majority of his foot, or the sole is opened to the extent that it does not cover the majority of his foot.
a) a sandal was made of wood58The same rules apply with regard to a shoe made from any of the other substances mentioned in the previous halachah and covered with leather (Maggid Mishneh). and covered with leather, or its soles were leather, and its sides were made from goats' hair,
b) [the yevamah] removed a left shoe from [the yavam's] right foot,
c) the shoe did not belong to the [the yavam],59In the present age, when the Rabbinic court owns a special chalitzah shoe, it is customary to give it to the yavam as a present before the ceremony.
d) it was oversized, but he could still walk while wearing it,
e) it was small, but it covered the majority of his foot,
f) it was torn, but it covered the majority of his foot, or
g) the sole was opened, but it covered the majority of his foot.
[Different rules apply with regard to a sandal that was made from an animal] offered to a false deity,64Our translation is based on the gloss of the Maggid Mishneh. The Maggid Mishneh continues, stating that if a sandal itself is offered to a false deity, it does not become forbidden. See Beit Shmuel 169:23.
The difference between this and the previous instance can be explained as follows: It is possible to nullify the connection between "an accessory to a false deity" and the worship of the false deity. (See Hilchot Avodat Kochavim 8:8-9.) As such, there is a possibility that such a sandal will not have to be destroyed. An object offered to a false deity, including the hide from which a sandal was made, can never be separated from its association with the false deity (ibid.). As such, it is condemned to be destroyed, forbidden for eternity and considered as if it did not exist. Hence, it is not considered as if the yevamah removed a significant entity from the yavam's foot. one from an apostate city,65See Hilchot Avodat Kochavim, Chapter 4, which describes the laws governing such a city. All the property in the city is condemned to be burned, and thus it cannot be used for chalitzah, for the reasons described above. or one that was made to be worn by a corpse when it is buried. If [such a sandal] is used for chalitzah, the chalitzah is unacceptable. [The rationale is] that such a sandal was not made for a person to wear while walking.
If she spits, and the wind blows away the spittle before it passed before his face - e.g., she is tall and he is short - [the spitting] is of no consequence. If [the wind blows] the spittle [away] after it passes before his face, but before it lands on the ground, it is acceptable.71The intent is that the spittle must pass in front of or below the yavam's face. If the yevamah was taller than the yavam and the wind moved her spittle away before it passed before his face, the spitting is not acceptable.
If the judges do not see the spittle emerge from [the yevamah's] mouth,72Although a priori the judges must see the spittle, as stated in Halachah 7, after the fact their failure to do so does not render the spitting unacceptable.
In Yevamot 106b, a phrase "before the eyes of the elders" (Deuteronomy 25:9 is cited as a support for this requirement. Nevertheless, the Rabbis explain that the requirement is Rabbinic and not Scriptural in origin, and the verse is merely an asmachta. See the Beit Shmuel 169:39. it is acceptable.
What is implied? For example, [if the yavam] was told: "Perform chalitzah for her; this is the manner in which you acquire her as a wife," "Perform chalitzah for her. It is a mitzvah, and you do not lose any rights. If you later desire to perform yibbum, you may,"73Note the Maggid Mishneh, which mentions that there is a dispute among the Rabbis about this issue. The rationale for the position that the chalitzah is acceptable is that in this instance, the yavam did intend to free the yevamah from her obligation to him. (See also Shulchan Aruch, Even HaEzer 169:52.) or the like, [the chalitzah] is unacceptable.74For as mentioned in Halachah 8, the chalitzah must be performed with the intent of releasing the woman from her obligation.
The chalitzah is, however, effective, in that it prevents the man (or his brothers) from ever performing yibbum with this woman. Therefore, the man is compelled by the court to perform an acceptable chalitzah, for from this point on he has nothing to lose, and through his act he can enable the woman to remarry (Rashba, as quoted by Maggid Mishneh; Shulchan Aruch, loc. cit. 169:51).
If, however, he was deceived and was told: "Perform chalitzah for her on the condition the she give you 200 zuz" - or "...under any other condition" - the chalitzah is acceptable,75This applies even if the condition is stated in a manner that meets the requirements of conditional statements (Shulchan Aruch, loc. cit.:50). even though she did not give [him the money] or fulfill the condition.76If such a condition is made, the woman is, however, rightfully obligated to pay the amount she agreed to pay, unless she has a reason for which she considers the yavam as unfit to marry her that the court would accept [Shulchan Aruch (ibid.)]. [The rationale is that] he had the intent [of releasing her from her obligation] when he performed chalitzah.
The Rivash offers a resolution, explaining that when a protest is issued with regard to a get, the get itself becomes nullified, and therefore the divorce is of no consequence at all. With regard to chalitzah, however, the yavam did perform all the required acts. His protest is accepted to the extent that it is considered that he performed these acts without intending to release the woman from her obligation. This, however, merely causes a chalitzah to be unacceptable, as stated in Halachah 16. It does not nullify it entirely. Therefore, it is proper for the judges to tell [the yavam] to nullify all protests [before he performs chalitzah], as they do with regard to a get.79See Hilchot Gerushin 6:20.
[The following rules apply when] Jews compel [a yavam] and beat him until he performs chalitzah:80The equivalence established by Yevamot 106a applies in this context as well. The Rambam discusses the laws governing a get given under compulsion in Hilchot Gerushin 2:20. If they act according to law,81This refers to a situation analogous to those described in Chapter 2, Halachah 14, or Chapter 6, Halachah 4, in which the person should be compelled to perform chalitzah.
The Ramah (Even HaEzer 169:13) states that even according to the Ashkenazic authorities who maintain that the mitzvah of chalitzah takes precedence, a yavam may be compelled to perform chalitzah only for these reasons. the chalitzah is acceptable.82For, as stated in Hilchot Gerushin, the person's actions are considered to be performed voluntarily, because:
He wants to be part of the Jewish people, and he wants to perform all the mitzvot and eschew all the transgressions; it is only his evil inclination that presses him. Therefore, when he is beaten until his [evil] inclination has been weakened, and he consents, he is considered to have [acted] willfully.
If they do not act according to law - e.g., they were commoners or they erred [in judgment] - the chalitzah is not acceptable.
If gentiles force [a yavam to perform chalitzah] on their own initiative,83I.e., as opposed to acting as agents for a Jewish court. but the law would require that chalitzah be performed, the chalitzah is unacceptable. If they do not act according to law, the chalitzah is of no substance.
Whenever we have used the term, "the chalitzah is unacceptable,"85As mentioned above, there is a difference of opinion among the Rabbis if the Rambam's intent is that these acts of chalitzah are acceptable according to Scriptural law or not. he becomes forbidden to her relatives, and she becomes forbidden to the priesthood. She also becomes forbidden to all the brothers, and she may not perform yibbum. She may not marry another man, however, until she performs an acceptable chalitzah.
If, however, we see that she removed the shoe of one [of the brothers], she is disqualified [from yibbum], lest she have intended to perform chalitzah.88The Kessef Mishneh states that the Rambam's ruling alludes to the following law: If neither the yevamah nor the yavam has the intent to perform chalitzah, the fact that she removes his shoe is of no consequence, and she is permitted to perform yibbum. Note the discussion of this subject in Sefer HaKovetz. An acceptable chalitzah must, however, be performed to enable her to marry another man.
Note, however, the Shulchan Aruch (Even HaEzer 169:56), which states that the paper on which the document is written must be ruled with a stylus (i.e., sirtut is required), because it contains Biblical verses. so that a woman will have at hand proof that she performed chalitzah.
Judges do not preside over chalitzah unless they know the identity [of the yevamah and the yavam]. Therefore, a person who observes chalitzah can write a document recording the chalitzah although he does not know90The Rambam is emphasizing that we do not suspect that perhaps the court erred and presided over a chalitzah without knowing the identity of the parties involved. that the woman is so and so's daughter, that her deceased husband was so and so, and that the person who performed chalitzah with her was [her husband's] brother. [He can assume] that the judges who presided over the chalitzah clarified these matters and afterwards had the chalitzah performed.
On this day of the week and on this day of the month, in this year from the time of creation, according to the reckoning that is followed in this and this place, we, the judges, of whom several have signed below,91For as stated in Halachah 5, at the outset five judges are necessary. Nevertheless, it is the presence of three that is considered significant. sat in a session of three in court. So and so, the widow of so and so, the daughter of so and so, approached us, as did a man named so and so, the son of so and so.
And this woman told us: "So and so, the son of so and so, [is] the paternal brother of so and so, my husband. [My husband,] to whom I was married, died, leaving life to the Sages and to the entire Jewish people. He did not leave a son or a daughter to inherit him and to perpetuate his name within Israel. So and so, his brother is fit to perform yibbum with me.
"Rabbis, tell that man: 'If you desire to perform yibbum, do so.' If not, let him place his right foot before me, and I will remove his shoe from his foot and spit before him."
We clarified the identity of so and so and that he is the paternal brother of so and so, and we told him: "If you desire to perform yibbum, do so. If not, place your right foot before us, so that she can remove your shoe from your foot and spit before you." He answered us: "I do not desire to perform yibbum."
Immediately, we had this woman recite after us:92Using the Hebrew words of the verse. "My yavam refuses to raise a name for his brother within Israel. My yavam does not desire [to perform yibbum]."
And then, we had the man recite after us:93Using the Hebrew words of the verse. "I do not desire to take her." He then placed his right foot forward. She removed his shoe from his foot and spit before him, emitting spittle that could be seen by us from her mouth to the ground.
We then had her recite after us:94Using the Hebrew words of the verse. "This is what should be done to a man who does not build his brother's household. And his [family] shall be called within Israel 'the household of the one whose shoe was removed.' And we the judges, and all those sitting before us, answered after her: "the one whose shoe was removed," "the one whose shoe was removed," "the one whose shoe was removed," three times.
When this act was performed before us, we granted license for so and so to marry whomever she desires; no man has the right to raise a protest from this day onward.
So and so made a request for a legal record of this chalitzah. [Hence,] we wrote it up, signed it and gave to her as proof according to the faith of Moses and Israel.
Signed so and so the son of so and so, a witness;
so and so the son of so and so, a witness.95We have included these lines based on the standard printed texts of the Mishneh Torah, although it is highly likely that they are a printer's addition. They are not found in most early manuscripts and printings. Moreover, it is likely that they are a later printer's addition because the Rambam does not mention witnesses signing this document, but rather only the judges who presided over the chalitzah.
Even [the testimony of] a woman, a servant or a minor who is perceptive and understanding is accepted if they say that "This is so and so, the brother of so and so, and this is his yevamah." We may then perform chalitzah on this basis. This does not apply with regard to other forms of testimony required by the Torah - neither testimony required in questions of monetary law nor testimony required with regard to prohibitions.
[The rationale for this distinction is that this is a matter that will likely be revealed, and it is possible to know the truth of the matter without relying on their testimony, as we have explained at the conclusion of Hilchot Gittin.97The Rambam concludes Hilchot Gerushin by stating:
Do not wonder at the fact that our Sages released the prohibition [against a married woman], which is considered a very severe matter, on the basis of the testimony of a woman, a servant or a maid servant, statements made by a gentile in the course of conversation, a written statement, or [testimony] that was not investigated by the ordinary process of interrogation, as we have explained.
[These leniencies were instituted] because the Torah required the testimony of two witnesses, and all the other details of the laws of witnesses only with regard to matters that cannot be verified definitively except via witnesses and their testimony - e.g., that one person killed another, or that one person lent money to another. When, by contrast, the matter can be verified definitively without the testimony of a witness, and the witness cannot justify [his statements] if they are not true - e.g., when one testifies that a person died, the Torah did not necessitate [that the requirements of formal testimony be met in these instances]. For it is unlikely that a witness will testify falsely.
As interpreted by the Noda BiY'hudah (Even HaEzer, Volume I, Responsa 27 and 33), the Rambam's statement implies that since the matter will ultimately become public knowledge, no formal testimony is required, and the statements of an individual who witnessed the matter himself are sufficient to be accepted.
If the yavam desires to perform yibbum, he should consecrate her, perform yibbum and write her a ketubah, as we have explained.98See Chapter 2, Halachah 2; Hilchot Ishut 22:14.
So and so, the yavam, has written [a marriage contract for] two hundred silver zuzim, as befits her, as was written in the marriage contract written to her by her first husband,100This refers to an instance where the woman was a virgin when she married her first husband. Since she did not collect her due from her first husband, she is still entitled to a marriage contract of two hundred zuz. Otherwise, she would be granted only one hundred zuz, as is granted to other widows. and he adds to this pledge from his own resources this and this amount. This is the dowry with which she entered the household... [continuing as in] the ordinary text of a ketubah.
On this day of the week..., [we the undersigned testify] that so and so, the son of so and so, told so and so, the daughter of so and so, a virgin bride: "Become my wife according to the faith of Moses and the Jewish people. And I, with the help of God, will work to honor you, sustain you, nourish you, provide for you and clothe you according to the custom of Jewish men who faithfully honor, sustain, nurture, provide for and clothe their wives.
"And as a dowry fit for a virgin, I will give you 200 silver zuzim, which are equivalent to 25 zuzim of [pure] silver,102For the coins of the Talmudic era were one part silver and seven parts base metal (Hilchot Ishut 10:8). which are fit for you according to the Torah,103Based on Hilchot Ishut (ibid.), this phrase appears to be a printer's addition, for the Rambam considers the commitment to this sum to be a Rabbinic ordinance. It is lacking in many authoritative printings and manuscripts of the Mishneh Torah. According to Ashkenazic custom, the phrase should be included in the ketubah. your sustenance, your clothing and your other needs, and I will give you conjugal rights."104This conveys a man's pledge to give his wife sha'arah (her sustenance), kesutah (her clothing) and onatah (her conjugal rights). These constitute a man's fundamental obligations in marriage, as stated in Exodus 21:10. (See also Sefer HaMitzvot, Negative Commandment 262; Hilchot Ishut 12:2.)
So and so agreed and became the wife of so and so. He consented and added to the essential requirement of the marriage contract, reaching a total sum of such and such. This is the sum of the value of the dowry that she brought to the household, such and such. The groom received this entire amount. It entered his domain and came under his jurisdiction, and he accepted responsibility for the entire amount as a loan and a debt.
Similarly, the groom has told us, "I accept responsibility for the entire [sum mentioned in] this marriage contract: the essential requirement of the marriage contract, the dowry, the additional amount, and all the stipulations of the marriage contract.105I.e., to provide his wife with her provisions and clothing.
"[This responsibility I accept upon myself,] my heirs and on all the valuable and desirable property and assets that I own beneath the heavens. [This includes] those that I already own and those that I will acquire and includes landed property and movable property that is acquired via the acquisition of landed property. All of them will be liable and accountable for the entire sum of this marriage contract: the essential requirement of the marriage contract, the dowry and the additions that payment be made from them in my lifetime and after my death, including even the cloak I wear on my shoulders."
We have formalized all that is written and explicitly stated above with a comprehensive kinyan.106I.e., a kinyan sudar, the exchange of a handkerchief that serves to formalize the acquisition of property, or the establishment of a binding contractual agreement. It should not be considered as an asmachta107An agreement made facetiously, without the desire to keep it. or as a sample text for legal documents that is not binding. Instead, it is binding with all the power and rigor of marriage contracts that are customarily accepted among the Jewish people, as ordained by our Rabbis of blessed memory. We signed this marriage contract on the date mentioned above. Everything is clear, forceful and viable.
[In these instances,] it is written: "And as a dowry, I will give you 100 silver zuzim, which are equivalent to 12 1/2 zuzim of [pure] silver, which are fit for you...."111If a woman had engaged in sexual relations previously outside the context of marriage, she should also be given a ketubah of this amount according to many authorities. Others maintain that she should be given the amount usually given to a virgin bride, so that she will not be publicly embarrassed. Others differentiate between a woman who had relations only with her prospective husband (in which case, the second ruling is followed) and one who had relations with others (in which case the first ruling is followed).
The contradiction was brought to the attention of the Rambam's grandson, Rabbi Yehoshua, who states that the ruling in Hilchot Sefer Torah should be followed, since there the subject is given full focus, while in Hilchot Yibbum the matter is mentioned tangentially. Significantly, however, the Shulchan Aruch (Yoreh De'ah 284:2) differs and follows the more stringent view.
A yevamah who performs chalitzah is permitted to marry on the same day on which she performed chalitzah, for she should not perform chalitzah until 90 days have passed [since her husband's death].113See Chapter 1, Halachah 19.
הלכות ייבום וחליצה פרק ד
א) כיצד מצות חליצה, היבמה הולכת אחר יבמה למקום שהוא שם, ובאה לדיינים, והם קוראין לו ונותנין לו עצה ההוגנת לו ולה: אם עצה טובה לייבם, יועצין אותו לייבם; ואם עצה טובה לחלוץ, כגון שהייתה היא ילדה והוא זקן, או היא זקנה והוא ילד, יועצין אותו לחלוץ.
ב) וצריכין הדיינין לקבוע מקום שיישבו בו, ואחר כך תחלוץ שם בפניהם, שנאמר "ועלתה יבמתו השערה אל הזקנים..." (דברים כה,ז); לא נועדו ולא קבעו מקום, אלא נקראו נקרה ונקראת היא והוא לפניהם, וחלצו -- חליצתה כשרה.
ג) ומלמדין אותה ואת היבם לקרות, עד שיהיו רגילין; ותהיה יכולה לקרות "לא אבה" (דברים כה,ז) בנשימה אחת, ואחר כך תאמר "יבמי" (שם), כדי שלא יהיה משמע דבריה, אבה יבמי. [ד] ומאחר שתהיה רגילה לקרות, אף על פי שלא קרת בנשימה אחת, אין מקפידין על זה; אבל אם אינה יכולה, מרגילין אותה עד שתדע.
ד) [ה] והחליצה -- ביום ולא בלילה, ובפני שלושה שיודעין להקרות כשורה. ואם היה אחד מן השלושה גר, פסול -- ואפילו היה אביו גר ואימו ישראלית: עד שיהיה אביו ואימו מישראל. ומצותה בחמישה, כדי לפרסם הדבר; ואותן השניים, אפילו היו עמי הארץ.
ה) [ו] כיצד חולצין, מביאין לו מנעל של עור שיש לו עקב, ואינו תפור בפשתן; ולובשו בימין, וקושר רצועותיו על רגלו; ועומד הוא והיא בבית דין, ומקרין ליבמה בלשון הקודש "מיאן יבמי..." (דברים כה,ז), ואחר כך מקרין ליבם "לא חפצתי לקחתה" (דברים כה,ח); ונועץ רגלו בארץ, והיא יושבת ופושטת ידה בבית דין, ומתרת רצועות המנעל מעל רגלו, וחולצת המנעל ומשלכת אותו לארץ; ומשיישמט רוב העקב, הותרה היבמה לזר.
ו) [ז] ואחר כך עומדת ויורקת בארץ כנגד פניו, רוק הנראה לדיינין -- שמצות חליצה שיהיו שניהן עומדין בשעת קריאה, ובשעת רקיקה; וצריכין הדיינין לראות הרוק היוצא מפיה. ואחר כך מקרין לה "ככה ייעשה לאיש, אשר לא יבנה את בית אחיו. ונקרא שמו, בישראל -- בית, חלוץ הנעל" (דברים כה,ט-י). [ח] הכול בלשון הקודש, שנאמר "ככה" בלשון הזה; וכל היושבין שם עונין אחריה חלוץ הנעל חלוץ הנעל חלוץ הנעל, שלושה פעמים.
ז) וצריך שתתכוון היבמה שתחלוץ לו, ויתכוון הוא שיחלוץ לה -- ויעשו מעשים אלו, לשמן. והסומה אינו חולץ, שנאמר "וירקה בפניו" (דברים כה,ט), ואין זה רואה הרוק.
ח) [ט] נמצא סדר חליצה כך הוא: קוראה היא תחילה "מיאן יבמי להקים לאחיו שם בישראל, לא אבה יבמי" (דברים כה,ז); ואחר כך קורא הוא "לא חפצתי לקחתה" (דברים כה,ח); ואחר כך תחלוץ, ואחר כך תרוק; ואחר כך תקרא "ככה ייעשה לאיש, אשר לא יבנה את בית אחיו. ונקרא שמו, בישראל -- בית, חלוץ הנעל" (דברים כה,ט-י). [י] ואין הסדר מעכב, אלא אם לא קראה בתחילה, לא היא ולא הוא, או שרקקה ואחר כך חלצה, או שקראה ואחר כך רקקה -- חליצתה כשרה. [יא] ולמה לא תחזור ותרוק על הסדר, שמא יאמרו, רקיקה לבדה אינה כלום, ואינה פוסלת מן האחין.
ט) [יב] חלצה בלבד, ולא קראה ולא רקקה -- חליצתה כשרה; ואין צריך לומר, שחלצה וקראה ולא רקקה, או שחלצה ורקקה ולא קראה -- שחליצתה כשרה. [יג] במה דברים אמורים, בשהיו יכולין לדבר, שהרי הם ראויין לקרות. אבל אילמת או אילם, אינן חולצין; ואם חלצו, חליצתן פסולה: ואינן כחירש וחירשת שחלצו, שלא עשו כלום, לפי שהחירש והחירשת, אינן בני דעת.
י) [יד] רקקה בלבד, או שרקקה וקראה ולא חלצה -- הרי זו כחליצה פסולה. קראה היא והוא, ולא חלצה ולא רקקה -- לא עשה כלום, שנאמר "ככה ייעשה לאיש" (דברים כה,ט): המעשה שהוא החליצה, והרקיקה היא שמועיל; אבל הקריאה אינה מעכבת, ולא מועלת.
יא) [טו] חלצה ורקקה וקראת, והן יושבין או מוטין על צידיהן, או שהיה שרוך הנעל קשור על שוקו מן הארכובה ולמטה, או שחלצה בפני שלושה עמי הארץ שאינן יודעין להקרות, וכן הסומה שחלצה -- חליצתו, כשרה.
יב) [טז] חלצה בלילה, או שחלצה בפני שניים, או בפני שלושה ונמצא אחד מהן קרוב או פסול, או שהיה המנעל קשור למעלה מן הארכובה, או שהתיר הוא ושמטה היא, או שהתירה היא ושמט הוא, או שנתכוונה היא ולא נתכוון הוא, או שנתכוון הוא ולא נתכוונה היא, וכן קטנה שחלצה לגדול -- חליצתה פסולה.
יג) וכן אם חלצה בפני יחיד, ואפילו בינו לבינה, ובלילה -- הרי זו חליצה פסולה; אבל חירש שוטה וקטן שחלצו, וכל החולץ למי שהיא פטורה מן החליצה ומן הייבום -- אינה חליצה.
יד) [יז] יבם שרגלו הימנית חתוכה, אינו חולץ בשמאל; ואם חלצה מעל שמאלו, חליצתה פסולה. הייתה רגלו עקומה לאחור, או הפוכה על צידה, או שהיה מהלך על ראשי אצבעות רגליו -- הרי זה אינו חולץ, שהחולץ צריך לנעוץ עקבו בארץ, וזה אינו יכול; ואם חלצה למי שרגלו כך, חליצתה פסולה. [יח] ויבמה שידיה חתוכות -- חולצת לכתחילה ואפילו בשיניה, שלא נאמר וחלצה בידה.
טו) חלצה במנעל של בגד, אינה חליצה; אבל אם חלצה במנעל שאין לו עקב, או שהיה תפור בפשתן, או שהיה מנעל של שיער או של סיב או של שעם או של עץ, או שהיה מנעל גדול שאינו יכול להלך בו, או קטן שאינו חופה רוב רגלו, או מנעל פרום שאינו חופה רוב הרגל, או נפחת שאין מקבל רוב הרגל -- חליצתה פסולה.
טז) [יט] חלצה בסנדל של עץ ומחופה עור, או שהייתה קרקעיתו עור ולחייו של שיער, או שחלצה סנדל של שמאל מעל רגלו הימנית, או שלא היה המנעל שלו, או שהיה המנעל גדול שיכול להלך בו, או קטן שחופה רוב רגלו, או נפרם שחופה רוב הרגל, או נפחת שמקבל רוב הרגל -- חליצתה כשרה.
יז) [כ] סנדל המוסגר והמוחלט, ושל עבודה זרה שמניחין אותו ברגלי הצורה -- לא תחלוץ בו; ואם חלצה, חליצתה כשרה -- ואף על פי שהוא אסור בהניה. אבל סנדל של תקרובת עבודה זרה, ושל עיר הנידחת, או שנעשה למת שייקבר בו -- אם חלצה בו, חליצתה פסולה: שהרי אינו עומד להלך בו.
יח) [כא] קרעה המנעל מעל רגלו, או ששרפתהו, או שהיה לבוש שני מנעלין וחלצה העליון, אף על פי שקרעה התחתון עד שנתגלתה רגלו -- הרי זו חליצה פסולה.
יט) [כב] יבמה שאכלה שום וגרגיר וכיוצא בהן מדברים שמזיבין את הרוק, והיה הרוק זב מפיה -- אינו כלום, עד שיהיה הרוק מעצמו. [כג] רקקה דם, או שהיה שותת מפיה -- אינו כלום; אם מצצה ורקקה, כשר, שאי אפשר לדם שנמצץ, בלא ציחצוחי רוק. רקקה וקלטתו הרוח קודם שיגיע לכנגד פניו, כגון שהייתה ארוכה והוא קצר -- אינו כלום; ואם אחר שהגיע לנגד פניו, אף על פי שלא הגיע לארץ -- כשר. וכן אם לא ראו הדיינין הרוק כשיצא מפיה, כשר.
כ) [כד] חליצה מוטעית, פסולה. כיצד, כגון שאמרו לו, חלוץ לה ובכך אתה כונסה, או שאמרו לו, חלוץ לה שזו מצוה היא ואינה מפסדת עליך כלום, ואם רצית אחר כך לייבם תייבם, וכיוצא בדברים אלו. אבל אם הטעוהו ואמרו לו, חלוץ לה על מנת שתיתן לך מאתיים זוז, או על תנאי כך וכך -- אף על פי שלא נתנה ולא נתקיים התנאי, חליצתה כשרה: שהרי נתכוון לחלוץ לה.
כא) [כה] המוסר מודעה על החליצה, חליצתו פסולה; לפיכך ראוי לדיינין לומר לו לבטל המודעה כדרך שעושין בגט. לחצוהו ישראל והכוהו עד שחלץ -- אם כדין עשו, חליצתו כשרה; ואם שלא כדין כגון שטעו או שהיו הדיוטות, חליצתו פסולה. ואם הגויים אנסוהו מעצמן -- אם היה הדין נותן שיחלוץ, חליצתו פסולה; ואם שלא כדין, אינה חליצה.
כב) [כו] כל מקום שאמרנו אינה חליצה, או לא עשה כלום, או אינה כלום -- הרי היא כאילו לא נחלצה לו, ולא נאסרו עליו קרובותיה, ולא נפסלה מן הכהונה, ומותרת להתייבם. וכל מקום שאמרנו חליצתה פסולה -- נאסרו עליו קרובותיה, ונפסלה מן הכהונה, ונאסרה על האחין, ואינה מתייבמת; ואינה מותרת להינשא לזר, עד שתחלוץ חליצה כשרה. [כז] עברה ונישאת -- הרי זה חולץ לה חליצה כשרה, והיא תחת בעלה; ואין מוציאין אותה מידו.
כג) [כח] יבמה שגדלה בין האחים -- הרי זו מותרת להתייבם, ואין חוששין לה שמא חלצה לאחד מהן בינו לבינה, ונפסלה עליהן. אבל אם ראינוה שחלצה נעלו של אחד מהן -- נפסלה, שמא נתכוונה לחליצה; וצריכה חליצה כשרה, להתירה לזר.
כד) [כט] גט חליצה שאנו כותבין -- אינו אלא מעשה בית דין, כדי שיהיה בידה ראיה שנחלצה. ואין הדיינין חולצין, אלא אם כן מכירין; לפיכך מי שראו זאת שנחלצה, כותבין לה גט חליצה, אף על פי שאינן מכירין שזו היא אשת פלוני, ושזה שחלץ לה אחיו הוא -- שהרי הדיינין שחלצה בפניהם הכירו זה, ואחר כך חלצה.
כה) וזהו נוסח גט חליצה שנהגו בו העם: [ל] ביום פלוני כך וכך לירח פלוני שנת כך וכך למנין פלוני למניאנא די רגילנא לממני ביה במקום פלוני, אנחנא דייני דמקצתנא חתימין לתתא, במותב תלתא כחדא הוינא יתבין בבי דינא, וסליקת לקדמנא פלונית בת פלוני ארמלת פלוני, ואקריבת לקדמנא גוברא חד די שמיה פלוני בן פלוני, וכן אמרה לנא פלונית דא. פלוני בר פלוני דנא אחוהי דפלוני מאבוהי הוא דהוינא נסיבנא ליה, ושכיב וחיי לרבנן ולכל ישראל שבק, ובר וברת ירית ומחסין ומוקים שמא בישראל לא שבק. והדין פלוני אחוהי חזי ליבומי יתי. כען רבנן אימרו ליה אי צבי ליבומי יתי ייבם, ואי לא יטלע לי קדמיכון רגליה דימינא ואשרי סיניה מעל רגליה וארוק באנפוהי. ואשתמודענוהי לפלוני דנא דאחוהי דפלוני מיתנא מאבוהי הוא, ואמרנא ליה אי צבית ליבומי יתה יבם, ואי לא אטלע לה קדמנא רגלך דימינא ותשרי סינך מעל רגלך ותרוק באנפך. ועני ואמר לית אנא צבי ליבומי יתה. מיד אקרינוהא לפלונית דא מאן יבמי להקים לאחיו שם בישראל לא אבה יבמי. ואף להאיי פלוני אקרינא ליה לא חפצתי לקחתה, ואטלע לה רגליה דימינא ושרת סיניה מעל רגליה ורקת באנפוהי רוקא דאתחזי לנא מפומה על ארעא. ותוב אקרינוהא ככה יעשה לאיש אשר לא יבנה את בית אחיו ונקרא שמו בישראל בית חלוץ הנעל. ואנחנא דייני וכל דהוו יתבין קדמנא ענינא בתרה חלוץ הנעל חלוץ הנעל חלוץ הנעל תלתא זמני. ומדאתעביד עובדא דא קדמנא שרינוהא לפלונית דא למהך להתנסבא לכל מאן דתצבי, ואנש לא ימחא בידה מן יומא דנן ולעלם. ובעת מיננא פלונית דא גטא דחליצותא דא, וכתבנא ויהבנא לה לזכו כדת משה וישראל.
כו) [לא] ומעידין עליו שלושה, או שניים מן השלושה, או שניים שראו החליצה אף על פי שאינן הדיינין שחלצה בפניהם, כמו שביארנו; ואפילו אישה, ואפילו עבד, או קטן שהוא מכיר ונבון -- נאמנין לומר, זה הוא פלוני וזו היא יבמתו, וחולצין על פיהן: וכן בשאר עדייות של תורה, בין לעדות ממון בין לעדות איסור -- שזה דבר העשוי להיגלות הוא; ואפשר לידע אמיתת הדבר שלא מפיהן, כעניין שביארנו בסוף הלכות גירושין.
כז) ואם רצה היבם לייבם, מקדש ומייבם; וכותב לה כתובה, כמו שהודענו. וזה הוא נוסח כתובת יבמין שנהגו בו העם: [לב] ביום פלוני כך וכך לירח פלוני שנת כך וכך למנין פלוני למניאנא די רגילנא לממני ביה במקום פלוני, איך פלוני בן פלוני אתא לקדמנא וכן אמר לנא. דפלוני בן פלוני אחי דמן אבא שכיב, וחיי לרבנן ולכל ישראל שבק ובר וברת ומורית ומחסין ומוקים שמא בישראל לא שבק, ושבק אתתא ההיא דשמה פלונית בת פלוני, וחאזי לי מן אוריתא ליבומי יתה כדכתיב בספר אוריתא דמשה יבמה יבוא עליה. וצביאת פלונית דא ואתיבמת לפלוני בר פלוני יבמה לאוקומי שמא בישראל כדכתיב והיה הבכור אשר תלד יקום על שם אחיו המת ולא ימחה שמו מישראל. וכתב לה פלוני יבמה לפלונית יבמתיה כסף זוזי מאתן דחאזו לה דהוו כתיבין לה בכתובתה דכתב לה בעלה קדמאה, ואוסף לה מדילה כך וכך. ודא נדוניא דהנעלת ליה... כשאר טופסי כתובות. טופס הכתובה: [לג] ביום פלוני לירח פלוני שנת כך וכך למניאנא די רגילנא לממני ביה במאתא פלונית דעל נהרא פלוני מותבה, איך פלוני בן פלוני אמר לה לפלונית בת פלוני בתולתא כלתא הוי לי לאנתו כדת משה וישראל, ואנא במימרא דשמיא אפלח ואייקר ואסובר ואזון ואפרנס ואכסי יתיכי כהלכת גוברין יהודאין דפלחין ומייקרין ומסוברין וזנין ומפרנסין ומכסין ית נשיהון בקשוט, ויהבנא ליכי מוהרי בתוליכי כסף זוזי מאתן דאנון מזוזי כספא טבא עשרין זוזין וחמשה זוזי דחאזו ליכי ומזוניכי וכסותיכי וספוקיכי ומעל עליכי כאורח כל ארעא. וצביאת כלתא פלונית דא והות ליה לאנתו. ורצה והוסיף לה תוספת על עיקר כתובתה עד משלם כך וכך, ודא נדוניא דהנעלת לה כך וכך, הכל נתקבל חתן זה ובא לידו ונעשה ברשותו וזקף הכל על עצמו במלוה ורשו. וכן אמר לנא חתנא דנן אחריות כתובה דא כולה עיקר ונדוניא ותוספת עם שאר תנאיי כתובה קבלית עלאי ועל ירתאי בתראי ועל כל שפר ארג נכסין וקנינין דאית לי תחות כל שמיא, דקניתי ודעתיד אנא למקני, מקרקעי ומטלטלי, מטלטלי אגב מקרקעי, כלהון יהון אחראין וערבאין לכתובה דא כולה עיקר ונדוניא ותוספת לאתפרעא מנהון בחיי ובתר מותי ואפלו מגלימא דאכתפאי, וקנינו מפלוני דנן על כל מאי דכתיב ומפרש לעיל קנין שלם דלא כאסמכתא ודלא כטופסי דשטרי, אלא כחומר חוזק כל שטרי כתובות הנוהגות בישראל וכהוגן וכתקון רבותינו ז"ל. וחתמנו על שטר כתובה דא בזמן הנזכר למעלה והכל שריר ובריר וקיים.
כח) [לד] ואם הייתה כתובת אלמנה, כותב פלונית ארמלתא; ואם הייתה כתובת גרושה, כותב פלונית הגרושה -- כדי שלא ייכשל בה כוהן. וכותב ויהבנא ליכי מהריכי כסף זוזי מאה דאנון מזוזי כספא טבא תריסר זוזי ופלג זוזא דחאזו ליכי.
כט) [לה] כשכותבין גט יבמין, או כתובת יבמין -- משרטט מקום הפסוקים, שאסור לכתוב שלוש תיבות בלא שרטוט. ויבמה שחלצה, מותרת להינשא ביום חליצתה, שהרי אינה חולצת, עד שתשלים תשעים יום.




